I knew someone who was very beautiful. She was blessed with an angelic face. She had full lips, fierce eyes, proportioned face, and an hourglass body. So basically, she was one of the most beautiful girl there is. Everyone was attracted to her. Even the ladies went lesbo for her. Then, something happened. I got to know her more. I was able to know who she really was. Her attitude, how she interact with other people, her own preferences. She was unfortunately, a mean girl. Not only was she mean, she had a lot of vices. She even drinks a lot of alcoholic beverages. She often goes to parties just to get drunk and .....laid. Unfortunately, the more I got to know her, the more her beauty faded away. All her beauty became a waste. I slowly lost interest in her. From that moment on, I learned that you should not like someone on physical beauty alone. It is better to get to know the person more before going all googoo gaga over them. I also learned that inner beauty is better than outer beauty.
What is inner beauty? According to a blog article that I read at hubpages.com entitled "Inner Beauty VS Outer Beauty" which was authored by a blogger named Eric under the username ESP1983, he mentioned their that an unattractive woman is not looked at by their looks but they are looked at their abilities, mind, and inner traits like being, kind, generous, humble, etc. Men who are more mature (and by that I mean a man who's wise about his choices) would look for a more serious relationship. In that relationship they would focus more on the attitude of a woman. They won't focus much on their physical beauty. An example would be Pauline Victoria Aughe. That woman was born without limbs but despite her disability, she looked at it as if it was a challenge. She tried whatever she can to overcome her problems. It wasn't an easy task to accomplish but in the end she was able to become successful. She is not as beautiful as Emma Watson or Angelina Jolie, but because of her positive attitude towards life she was able to find the right man for her, have a family, and live a happy life.
Basically outer beauty shouldn't be the only basis when looking for someone attractive. It's the inner beauty that makes someone really attractive. A positive attitude would reflect an attractive appearance. I noticed that with some of my friends. They may not have the perfect face nor body, but because of their positive attitude, they became very attractive.
Eric mentioned in his blog, "But the inside needs more care than the outside; the outside, no matter how hard we work to keep attractive, and no matter how many inventions to “rejuvenate” are out there, it decays with time. The inside never decays unless it is abandoned." In short, what Eric is saying here is that no matter how many times we try putting make up or cosmetics on our face, our face will wrinkle out and become ugly through out the years. But as long as we have a positive and good attitude, we'll always be attractive.
Remember this women, stop looking for very expensive make-up that you think would make you attractive. Stop saving money for a plastic surgery. You don't any of those to look beautiful. Just have good moral values and positive attitudes. You will end up looking very attractive. Especially to the right man that God has reserved for you.
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